I have been struggling with a heavy heart on a situation that has been going on for sometime. It has to do with Nathan and Alex's half sister. yes, they have a half sister who they love very much. However, do to the broken relationship between their father and her mother my boys have not seen their sister for close to two years. This is tearing them up inside and I have a feeling it is one of the roots to Alex's behavior issues. I recently had the chance to see their sister, unfortunately Nathan and Alex were not with me. Her mom pretended like we were long lost friends and said that after Easter (yes that is how long ago it was), she would call me and we would get the boys and their sister together. Well that never happened. This has been very hard on me because I don't know what to do. I have thought of legal action requesting visitation for my children to see their sister, but I do not know if there is such a right? I cannot afford to hire an attorney or private investigator to find her, so I resorted to the Internet. I had forgot about a website similar to Myspace called Bebo, and happen to stumble upon it tonight. It just so happens I have her as a friend, so I sent her a letter. Here is what I wrote:
I am not sure if you will get this or not because I had forgotten all about this site. I have tried really hard to stay nice and not cause a problem, but my boys are being hurt in the long run and I cannot do it anymore. They really miss their sister and it is tearing them up inside to the point that it is causing behavior issues. Alex lashes out at my husband because he is afraid that he is going to leave and take their baby brother away. He even voiced his concern to us that if we ever have a little girl he did not want another sister that he was not going to get to see. Now I can understand that you do not want anything to do with Greg, and I respect that more then you know. If it was not for the fact that I was married to him and my boys were older when we divorced I may have made the same decision, but unfortunately that is not an option for us anymore. My boys love their father for what ever reason, and I have to allow then to have the little bit of a relationship that they do have with him. I would really like to see them reunited with their sister. Please Joanne I am pleading with you mother to mother! Let’s, try to get them together! We can meet at a public place, your sister’s house, my house, anywhere that you feel comfortable. This has nothing to do with Greg, so please do not take out the anger and resentment you have towards him on my children. They miss her with all of their hearts and talk of her often. Please contact me at home as I am getting a new cell phone soon. My home number is (916) 729-5486. PLEASE leave a message if I do not answer leave your contact information and I will call you back. Or if you would rather email me at teacheroftwos@yahoo.com that is fine as well. Just please please please contact us, so that my boys can see their sister again!
I hope that she will hear my plee and that my children will be reunited with their little sister who they love and miss ohhh sooo much!
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